He was convinced that the guy knew who I was. In an effort to describe me to his friend, he began defining me by things. Yep, that's right… things. Things like the car that I drove, the watch that I wore, and the types of clothes that I owned. Apparently this is how people saw me. I was defined more by what I consumed than what I contributed. That was a wake up call for me.The wake up ca... more  